The Happiness Project

Yes of course, sometimes terrible circumstances make it impossible for me to be happy, but it’s almost always possible to be happier, and often with just a few small steps, I can give myself a big boost. I try to recognize the fact that I’m feeling blue (oddly, this is often easier said than done) and take action to lift my spirits.

Here are 30 things I do to make myself happier when I need an immediate boost:

Do ten jumping jacks.
Go outside and look at the sky.
Pet my dog Barnaby. Then…
Text a photo of Barnaby to my family.
Re-read a few chapters of a children’s or YA book in a series I love: Graceling, Harry Potter, Narnia, Melendy Quartet, etc.
Enjoy a beautiful smell.
Do a small good deed for someone else.
Clear some clutter (I can always find some).
Look for a beautiful color in my surroundings.
Call my sister Elizabeth.
Take a minute to be grateful for some basic aspect of my life: elevators, space heaters, Wikipedia.
Send a family update.
Clean off my desk.
Copy some quotations into my giant trove of quotations.
Look at my TimeHop app.
Make sure I’m not cold, hot, thirsty, hungry, need to go to the bathroom, or experiencing mild discomfort: in other words, treat myself like a toddler.
Re-copy my to-do list, so it’s fresh and clean.
Go to the library.
Watch an episode of The Office (American version).
Make the positive argument.
Randomly read a few pages of Virginia Woolf’s A Writer’s Diary.
Make myself a cup of coffee.
Make a plan for some future fun: plan an outing, make a date with a friend, add a book to my library list.
Re-read Winston Churchill’s eulogy for Neville Chamberlain.
Tackle some small, nagging task that’s been weighing on my mind.
Move with more energy, put a smile on my face. When I act happier, I’ll feel happier.
Plan to go to bed early. I always feel better in the morning.
Hug a member of my family (whoever’s available).
Allow myself to do some quick research on a subject that has been fascinating me, but is unrelated to my work.
Listen to Nina Simone sing “Feeling Good.”